LADY SHARES HER ABUSE STORY


“Good morning from this end.. 😊
I decided to write you the briefest part of my life story...
Please read and share if ok by you.
Thank you

I really don't understand why people in this country sing with two sided mouth. A woman is stabbed to death and the men & women jump up and down social media. A woman stabs a man and it's outwardly an abomination of some sort.... Advices pour in and after a week max, the story dies down. Everyone moves on.
Why am i writing this.... I was 22yrs when i married a man who at any slight provocation doesn't hesitate to pounce on me. He wasn't beating me, but punches me...
On one of the episode of beating, my sister was home and my baby was just 3months old. Oh! did he beat me that day, to the extent he was hitting my head on the concrete floor.... I tried to struggle but i cldnt because he was much bigger than me.... My sister was crying & begging him to leave me. Next thing he told my sister to go get a knife that because he thinks it's my beauty that he was going to slash my face and disfigure me. My sis, hearing that ran to the kitchen and locked the door, then threw the keys out of the window. Was the next morning she went looking for the key within the compound. This happened 14yrs ago...... Hmmmmmm....
Thoughts in my head, what if my sister wasn't home with me that day,? Who knows what would have happened that night?
4years further more in the marriage, on this faithful day, we had another episode and that was the last of it. I was ready to fight back, i didn't care anymore but all in my head was fight back... I kicked punched, bite, slap... But i think when i had my freedom from beating was when i kicked his balls and really injured him and i saw blood. He went to the hospital for stitches and lied that he fell from the bathtub...lol..... He never laid hands on me again till i left the house and took a bold walk out of that marriage.
A year after, i left the marriage for good. It took me close to 2yrs to come out of the depressed state.... it's 7yrs i left the marriage Nkechi dear and am so scared to even believe any man. I sheild my daughter (14yrs by March) so bad....
This is my Summarized story...


Wow, like I always say, Test the demon in your lover while courting to see the worse he can do before getting married.

Break his dishes, don't call him for a day, speak rudely to him just to see how far he can get with his anger.

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